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Disrupt the Gender Binary in 5 Simple Steps

Amy C. Waninger · 2017-12-03 · 1 Comment

Author’s note: This article is adapted from my book, Network Beyond Bias.

What does “gender binary” mean?

The term “gender binary” refers to the either/or view that people, traits, or behaviors are innately male or innately female, with no gray area in between. Gender binary constraints limit everyone’s ability to be seen for who they are. This article explores five ways to make the world safe for individuality.

1. Introduce your pronouns

Introduce your pronouns when you introduce yourself. For example, when I meet someone new, I could say, “Hi, I’m Amy. My pronouns are she, her, and hers.”

Specifying your pronouns helps normalize differences and helps to challenge assumptions that people may have.

2. Put your pronouns on your name tag

At networking events, put your pronouns on your name tag. “My Name Is” stickers are boring anyway, and now you have a built-in conversation starter!

3. Update social network profiles

Update your social network profiles (such as Facebook, Twitter, and LinkedIn) and your email signature to include your pronouns. For example, my email signature looks like this:

Disrupt the gender binary with your email signature

4. Ask people for their pronouns

Ask people for their pronouns, particularly if you have already shared your own. Don’t assume, based on someone’s appearance, that you know what pronouns they use. If the pronouns are unfamiliar to you, repeat them to confirm you heard correctly. Use the correct pronouns. If you slip up, simply apologize and try again. Most people will appreciate your effort, so long as it’s genuine.

5. Avoid stereotyping

Avoid stereotyping behaviors, inanimate objects, or emotions as “girly,” “manly,” “feminine,” or “masculine.” Avoid chastising children for showing an interest in something traditionally associated with a different gender. Don’t use “like a girl” as a criticism or “for a girl” as a compliment.

Career, Communication, Diversity, Leadership, Network Beyond Bias, networking

About Amy C. Waninger

Amy C. Waninger works with organizations that want to build leadership bench strength from a diverse talent population. She is the author of numerous books, including "Network Beyond Bias: Making Diversity a Competitive Advantage for Your Career." Amy is a Certified Diversity Professional, a Professional Member of National Speakers Association, a Certified Virtual Presenter, and a Prosci Certified Change Practitioner. Her other credentials include two degrees from Indiana University and a "World’s Best Mom" coffee mug.

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